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Brochures
24. April 2007
It isn't like mother and father don't love their child.
Sometimes they just don't know how to love and raise their children.
They might not know how to be a mother, how to be a father. Quite often they don't understand their children.
Sometimes they can't understand themselves, therefore can't solve their problems.
We can give You advise.
First affection
Congratulation, you have become a mother!
New role, you have been waiting for can beside joy cause other mutual feelings. If you know, how to be ready for them and understand, that those feelings are natural, you can also avoid blaming yourself. Probably sometimes, when you’re home with your child, you feel how fatigue and weariness are getting over you. Especially then, when your child is one of those, who cry lot and sleep less, demanding much attention. If possible, ask someone to baby-sit your child and allow yourself some sleep and amusement outside home. Once you’ve relaxed, you have strength to be a loving, caring, considerate and patient mother for your child.
Everything has its own time
There are specific sensitive periods in every person’s life, when one is especially receptive to certain learning and gaining experiences. These periods are called sensitive periods. Sensitive period for forming affection between mother and child takes place during the first year.
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You’re son is a teenager
Puberty is normally a trial for both parents as children. It’s a period when changes are going to take place in girls’ and boys’ bodies.
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When child’s father drinks
Your husband and children’s father has lost control over his life and alcohol has become a big part of his life.
You have tried to manage the situation bravely so far, pretending that everything is all right in front of others and hoping that he would stop drinking after all.
Unfortunately all your strength and attention is directed to dealing with that problem.
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A child and depression
Many grownups think that childhood is a bright and careless time in person’s life. Actually a child or a youngster needs to deal with multiple loads: growing, getting independent, finding his/her path in a life, personal relations, and tiring school-life and parents’ requirements. Necessary skills and experiences for that can be absent and children/youngsters are under great strain.
As a result a depression can grow out from a small mood fall.
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Divorce and a child
A divorce is often a long process that claims a lot of time and strength, so that children can leave without necessary attention. As a result it can happen that they suffer most during parents divorce process.
There is no instruction for a divorce, but following observations help to cope with the situation and change that process as easy and painless as possible for everybody.
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A child with ADHD
Hyperactivity is a ubiquitous name for ADHD – Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. That name describes a condition when child has problems with concentrating and following commonplace behavior rules.
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Help for divorcing parents
A very stressful work-life leaves less and less time and attention to children and husband. The wishes that have not been discussed and the needs of the children without attention may lead us to one of the most difficult crises in our life - a divorce.
Divorce is affecting not only the husbands, but also childrens every-day routine, even relatives and friends are affected.
What helps the child to cope with divorce better?
A parent needs to speak with her/his child about the divorce.
The stress factors for child in the middle of parents' divorce.
Divorce-help for adults.
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All brochures are in Estonian and Russian language and available in Estonian Children's Fund!
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good, they know enough and know how to deal with these kids
