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Everybody gets hurt in the divorce-war, says Sirje Grossmann - Loot in magazine "Women"
7. May 2008
Both parents are sympathetic if you speak with them separately, and both are unhappy they must split up because of their unfitness to live together. They are willing to make agreements in assigning the future adobe for the child. But from there the child might turn to be as a weapon in divorce-war, knows Sirje Grossmann - Loot, a counseller on divorce.
The readiness to become and stay good friends after the divorce is quite common. As first. When the knowledge about divorce finally hits you and all the emotions that were being forced back during the past years and that got extra bait in the ending phase of conjugal life - anger, humiliation, fear, bittering, sadness - look for the exit, it is really hard to find the reasonable agreements.
Read more from magazine "Women" (no. 17 (60), in Estonian).
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good, they know enough and know how to deal with these kids
